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My friends bailed on my birthday trip to Paris a few years ago. Now, I go on a solo trip every year to celebrate getting older
Years ago, as my 26th birthday approached, I decided to take myself to Paris. Although I’d initially invited friends, circumstances changed, and I embraced the idea of going solo.
It turned out to be the best decision ever.
Uninhibited by others’ budgets or plans, I completely indulged during my birthday celebration abroad — waking up whenever I pleased, exploring different places, finding free activities to enjoy, and trying out diverse restaurants.
Initially, I was concerned about feeling self-conscious while being alone on a trip, but I quickly realized people are generally preoccupied with their own lives and not concerned about others’ vacations. And I noticed how many others were traveling solo, too, whether for adventure or business.
I’ve since fully embraced the idea of a solo birthday celebration. It’s freeing and empowering to mark the occasion on my own terms without relying on anyone else.
Now, I’ve celebrated my birthday around the globe
After my unforgettable trip to Paris, I continued my solo adventures, exploring Lisbon, Zimbabwe (where I combined solo and family time), and my favorite so far — the Maldives.
Initially, I had pictured traveling to the Maldives with my future spouse for a honeymoon. But I realized I didn’t need to wait for a partner to experience such a dream destination. Instead, I chose to embrace the beauty of the moment and celebrate with myself, for myself.
Traveling solo for a birthday comes with perks, too. I make it known ahead of time to staff at restaurants and hotels that it’s my birthday and I’ve gotten to enjoy many free desserts with sparklers — a small but delightful treat.
Traveling solo has empowered me and given me a new sense of freedom
Solo travel has helped me feel invincible and capable of anything. These trips are also a special way for me to express self-love while celebrating getting another year older. After all, the relationship I have with myself is the most important one.
I encourage others to embark on their solo-travel journeys — and, if it seems overwhelming, start small by going to the movies or a local restaurant by yourself. Build up to a longer solo trip, whether it’s a weekend nearby or an international holiday.
For my next birthday, I have my sights set on exploring Africa’s rich cultures on my own.